Guess what…Swinging can be the most liberating, thrilling, exciting and adventurous experience you can share together.  It seriously enhanced our relationship; taking it to a whole new level of intimacy and integrity and there are ways to make it a PHENOMENAL experience for both of you.  I promise because I've done it!

Before I get really carried away, my name is Chantelle.  I'm your regular everyday wife, mother, business woman, life coach and… swinger!  Not a bad combination if you want to write an ultimate guide to swinging. 

If you're anything like me though, you'll want to find short cuts to playing now, get inspiration for new things to try and find out how to avoid any pitfalls in the process, right?

Oh and by the way, if you're just checking it out or if you've already started swinging, it doesn't matter.  There is heaps in this book (over 120 pages worth!) that I'm still adding to after 18 months of swinging with my husband, and while we have it down pat, at the beginning we were all fingers and thumbs so to speak, going in fairly naïve, as most people do.   

Does this sound familiar, you start looking for information, but it's not all in one place  or quite simply, the information you want is missing completely, well that's all about to end, you see help is at hand...

There were things we could have done differently during our first 6 months (and boy do I have some stories to tell but I'll get to those later).  Luckily we managed to fumble our way through without making too many mistakes… Others weren't so successful…

Some really nice couples gave us ideas and handy tips from their own experience, I did some research on the internet and I found some more information about other things to consider but nothing anywhere near as comprehensive as what I ended up writing in this book... Which gave us the confidence to keep on swinging, you see the surprising thing was that swinging was bringing my partner and I CLOSER.

So this got me thinking, what can I do to help others who are new to swinging... in just a few moments you will see everything that you need to know about swinging...

I'll even show you the table of contents so you can see for yourself how simple and comprehensive it is, but before I do, can I share a story?

No, not that kind of story! If you're lucky I might share those later but read this first.  We went out to dinner with 2 couples, still fairly new to the scene, it was our first meeting with both of them and the dinner conversation headed down the trail of their not-so-great experiences. 

In just that one conversation we learnt how to:

• Depart from meetings with people we were clearly not attracted to (escape strategies!!!)
• Create our own secret couple language to be able to communicate covertly while other people were still in the room, and how to
• Keep our identities private. One of them worked for the police force and the other was in Defence so we have it on good authority…

We gained some extremely useful information for us as newbies.

So I've pulled together what I learnt from other people's stories and personal experience, put it all together in one very easy to read book.  It's full of informative, entertaining,  TRUE  light hearted stories about everything you will want to know about swinging. I don't know about you, but I hate reading long, boring "How to..." guides!

Besides, it's all about swinging which is supposed to be FUN and I honestly can say we've had huge doses of that along the way. 

Although at first it was a bit daunting I must admit.  I had some interesting fears come up which when I look back now, I laugh at… do you want to know what one of mine was?  You promise you won't laugh though right?

Well, we originally wanted to organise a threesome with another male, nothing too out there.  We talked about having a friend versus a stranger and after an unsuccessful attempt at finding a stranger we felt comfortable with, we decided on a friend…

A very sexy man and a willing participant so you'd think it would all be fine, right?   Well, it should have been but there was one thing that weighed heavily on my mind.  This one fear made me very anxious and nervous to the point where I actually pulled the pin on it…

My fear was “what if I'm no good in bed?” 

Now you promised you wouldn't laugh!  Apparently I wasn't alone on this one though.  I had a couple of our swinger friends read the book and they said it's one of those fears that lots of people have but never talk about!  So I've made it really easy, I wrote about it so you don't have to ask the question, not that you have that fear though, right?

I have good news though, not for you but for others that might have had that fear; once you get past it the real fun begins! 

When we first started, we didn't realise how many options there were!

Do you remember what it was like as a child writing your Christmas list for Santa?  Remember how exciting it was to be able to put down anything you ever wanted?  Imagine the swinging lifestyle as your new Santa… Do you know what you'd want for Christmas? 

Threesomes?   Foursomes?

MOREsomes?

It took me about 6 months to compile our list! You could write your own list or check mine out in  so you don't have to take as long on yours, but it also became a talking point for us as we openly chatted about the things we wanted to put on it.  This in itself brought us closer together and created brilliant foundations for a successful swinging relationship!

Being a life coach and having seen other couples get into swinging only to have it break them apart, made me think about what made our relationship so successful and I came up with a number of key factors.   Would you like to know what they are?

I'll share one with you in a moment but let me just tell you this.  I wanted to write a book that helped couples pinpoint issues before they got too big to manage, so I designed a short questionnaire to bring things out in the open early and get rid of any mis-undertandings that you both might have, guess what; it's never too late to do this part. 

I've included lots of discussion points because it's EXTREMELY important to talk about EVERYTHING when you swing!

Which means one of the key factors in swinging successfully is obviously…

Communication! 

In all seriousness, if you can't talk to your partner about everything now, don't read any further; buy the book and go through the whole relationship section to determine if your relationship is really ready for swinging, if not, pinpoint the areas you need to work on now! (In the relationship section).

So far there are 7 in total! So there isn't much I haven't covered.

Imagine having one handy bedside book that answered every question you ever had about swinging or gave you handy hints and tips for fresh ideas if you're been swinging for a while! 

I promise you I've covered almost everything you can think of.  I've either done the research, had the experience or heard the stories so that you can skip on any of the pitfalls and go straight into the good stuff!  Check out the table of contents…

What the?	6
For beginners or those considering the option…	7
So what is swinging?	9
Why would a couple decide to become swingers?	11
Is swinging abnormal or taboo?	13

Your Relationship	15
Relationship Readiness Test – Are you ready?	16
Creating the ultimate foundations	18
Is there a green eyed monster in the house?	20
Have you got security?	22
Love vs Sex	24
Attitude is everything	25
Communication is the key!  Or so they say…	26
How swinging has affected our relationship	27
Could swinging save your marriage or relationship?	29
Being the first one to suggest the idea…	32
Boundaries; what are your limits?	34
Deciding on your playmates together	37

How to…	39
Meet people	40
Use Swingers Clubs – Are they for the advanced or beginner?	41
Create a profile that gets attention	42
Filter for ideal prospective playmates	46
Use chat programs as a tool	50
Keep your partner in the loop	53
Spot the fakes!	55
Protect your identity	57
Tell someone you’re not interested	59
Differentiate your playmates from your “normal” friends	60
Protect yourself from AID’s and other STD's	61

Handy Tips and the Do’s and Don’ts	64
Secret couple language for meeting and playing	67
Where to meet	68
The first meeting	69
Boundaries	71
Playmate training	72
Photos	73
Preparing for a play date	75
Ice breakers – getting the play time started	76
The swinging couples list of must haves	79
All I want for Christmas is… The whole list!	81
Ending the evening – a handshake, a kiss or breakfast?	82
Spice up tips for the non-swingers (or not yet swingers)	83
Straight, bi or gay – what are you?	85

What if?	87
I want to try same sex play...	88
I’m not into anal!	91
I’m not good in bed…	93
I can’t get it up on the night!	95
I’m overweight!	97
I get my period while I’m playing…	99
I don’t or can’t orgasm!	100
We’ve got children!	101
I want to invite my playmates to a vanilla event	102
I want to tell my vanilla friends about us swinging	103

The Serious Stuff	104
Swinger etiquette	105
Potential pitfalls of swinging	108
What if my partner falls for a playmate?	110
Cheating versus swinging	111
Our playmate is cheating on their partner	112
One partner is swinging because the other one wants to	113
At what point do we call it quits or take a break?	114
One partner wants to stop but the other doesn’t	115
One partner is into something that the other one isn’t	117
Swinging while pregnant	118

What the hell is…?	119
Bondage and Discipline (B&D)	120
Domination and Submission	120
Sadism and Masochism	120
BDSM	120
A Fetish	121
A “DP” or Double Penetration	123
A DVDA	123
“Air Tight”	123
A “Spit Roast”	123
A Gangbang	123
Dogging	124
Voyeurism	125
Exhibitionism	125

Resources	126
Websites	127

See what I mean?  It's pretty comprehensive huh!

I spent months and months writing this book and I haven’t found anything else out there that gets even remotely close to the amount of detail and resources this guide has.

You can look but you won’t find all of this information in one place anywhere else.  Believe me, I tried!

WARNING: Before you go any further you should know that reading this guide will:

1. Increase the passion and desire between you and your partner whether you decide to swing or not
2. Increase your libido and have you wanting sex at all hours
3. Get you into a lifestyle that has multiple nights of hot sex with people who can turn you on from a distance
4. Show you how and where to meet quality playmates you can have wild nights of unadulterated sex with
5. Put you on the path to fulfilling multiple fantasies or fulfilling fantasies with multiples
6. Give you everything you need to know to go from a complete newbie to a Swinging Pro in no time

So as you can see, this book is not for the faint hearted and only those who want to explore the world of sex and sexuality, or aren't afraid to find out what goes on behind the bedroom doors in the swinging world should go any further. 

That must be you if you’re still reading and for that I have something extra for you! Something to add even more spice! "More spice?" I hear you say, absolutely, because I think you deserve the hottest and most fulfilling sex life you can have! 

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Chantelle Austin

Copyright 2008 Chantelle Austin International